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Why Am I Depressed and How Can I Feel Better?

Understanding the causes of depression and exploring ways to manage it can help you take the first steps toward healing.

By Taylor Pagniello, RP, M.A.

Nov 18, 2024

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Depression is one of the most misunderstood mental health conditions, and if you’re struggling with it, you may have asked yourself, “Why am I depressed?” or “Will I always feel this way?” These questions are completely valid, and while depression can feel overwhelming, it is also highly treatable. Understanding the causes of depression and exploring ways to manage it can help you take the first steps toward healing.

In this article, we’ll explore the science behind depression—why it happens, how it manifests, and evidence-based ways to feel better.

What Is Depression?

Depression, or major depressive disorder (MDD), is a mental health condition characterized by persistent sadness, hopelessness, loss of interest in activities, and physical symptoms such as fatigue, sleep disturbances, and changes in appetite (American Psychiatric Association, 2022). It’s important to recognize that depression is more than just feeling sad—it’s a serious condition that affects the brain and body, often requiring a combination of treatment approaches.

Depression Affects the Brain

Depression is linked to changes in brain structure and function, particularly in areas responsible for emotion regulation and stress response. Neuroimaging studies have shown that individuals with depression often have a smaller hippocampus (responsible for memory and emotion regulation), reduced activity in the prefrontal cortex (involved in decision-making and impulse control), and overactivity in the amygdala (which processes fear and emotional responses) (Saveanu & Nemeroff, 2012).

Depression Is Not Just a Chemical Imbalance

For decades, depression was thought to be caused by a simple lack of serotonin—a neurotransmitter involved in mood regulation. However, recent research suggests that depression is far more complex and involves multiple biological, psychological, and social factors. While neurotransmitters like serotonin, dopamine, and norepinephrine do play a role, depression is also influenced by genetics, inflammation, chronic stress, and environmental factors (Millan et al., 2015).

Why Am I Depressed?

Depression is often caused by a combination of genetic, biological, psychological, and environmental factors. Let’s take a closer look at some of the most common contributors:

1. Genetics and Family History

If you have a family history of depression, you may be more genetically predisposed to developing it. Research has identified hundreds of genetic variants associated with depression, although no single gene is responsible for the disorder (Howard et al., 2019). Having a genetic predisposition does not mean you will develop depression, but it may make you more vulnerable when combined with other risk factors.

2. Trauma and Stressful Life Events

Experiencing trauma—whether in childhood or adulthood—can significantly increase the risk of depression. Adverse childhood experiences (ACEs), such as abuse, neglect, or the loss of a parent, have been strongly linked to the development of mental health disorders, including depression (Felitti et al., 1998). Similarly, chronic stress from work, relationships, or financial struggles can contribute to the onset of depression.

3. Nervous System Dysregulation

The nervous system plays a critical role in emotional regulation. People with a dysregulated nervous system may have heightened sensitivity to stress, leading to an increased risk of developing depression and anxiety. Chronic stress and trauma can push the nervous system into a prolonged “fight-or-flight” state, making it difficult to relax or experience positive emotions (McEwen, 2017).

4. Inflammation and the Immune System

Emerging research suggests that inflammation may play a key role in depression. Studies have found that individuals with depression often have higher levels of inflammatory markers in their blood, which may contribute to changes in brain function and mood regulation (Miller & Raison, 2016). Inflammatory conditions, such as autoimmune diseases, have also been linked to an increased risk of depression.

5. Lifestyle Factors

Poor sleep, a sedentary lifestyle, an unhealthy diet, and substance use can all contribute to depression. For example, diets high in processed foods and sugar have been associated with increased depression risk, while diets rich in whole foods, omega-3 fatty acids, and antioxidants may have protective effects (Jacka et al., 2017).

How Can I Feel Better?

While depression can feel overwhelming, there are many scientifically supported strategies to help manage and reduce symptoms.

1. Therapy: Addressing Thought Patterns and Emotional Wounds

Therapy is one of the most effective treatments for depression. Different types of therapy work in different ways, but all aim to help individuals process their emotions, reframe negative thoughts, and develop coping mechanisms.

  • Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT): One of the most researched therapies for depression, CBT helps individuals identify and change negative thought patterns that contribute to their low mood (Butler et al., 2006).
  • Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT): ACT helps people develop psychological flexibility by accepting their emotions rather than fighting against them (Hayes et al., 2012).
  • Trauma-Informed Therapy: If past trauma is a factor in your depression, working with a therapist trained in trauma-focused therapies, such as EMDR or somatic experiencing, may be beneficial.

2. Medication: Balancing Brain Chemistry

Antidepressants can be effective for individuals with moderate to severe depression. Selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs) and serotonin-norepinephrine reuptake inhibitors (SNRIs) are commonly prescribed. However, finding the right medication often involves trial and error, as individual responses vary (Rush et al., 2006).

3. Lifestyle Changes: Supporting Mental and Physical Health

  • Exercise: Regular physical activity has been shown to be as effective as medication for some individuals with depression (Schuch et al., 2018).
  • Nutrition: A diet rich in whole foods, healthy fats, and lean protein supports brain health and mood stability.
  • Sleep Hygiene: Maintaining a consistent sleep schedule and reducing screen time before bed can help regulate mood.

4. Building a Support System

Social isolation can worsen depression, while strong social connections can provide emotional support and resilience. Engaging with supportive friends, family, or peer support groups can make a significant difference in recovery.

5. Addressing Nervous System Dysregulation

Practices like mindfulness, meditation, deep breathing exercises, and vagus nerve stimulation techniques (such as cold exposure and humming) can help regulate the nervous system and reduce symptoms of depression (Porges, 2011).

Conclusion

Depression is a complex condition with multiple contributing factors, including genetics, trauma, nervous system dysregulation, inflammation, and lifestyle choices. While it can feel overwhelming, there are many effective treatment options available, from therapy and medication to lifestyle changes and nervous system regulation techniques.

If you are struggling with depression, know that recovery is possible. Seeking help from a mental health professional and implementing small, consistent changes can make a significant impact over time.

  • American Psychiatric Association. (2022). Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (5th ed., Text Revision).
  • Felitti, V. J., et al. (1998). Relationship of childhood abuse and household dysfunction to many of the leading causes of death in adults. American Journal of Preventive Medicine, 14(4), 245–258.
  • Howard, D. M., et al. (2019). Genome-wide meta-analysis of depression. Nature Neuroscience, 22(3), 343-352.
  • Jacka, F. N., et al. (2017). A randomized controlled trial of dietary improvement for adults with major depression. BMC Medicine, 15(23).
  • Miller, A. H., & Raison, C. L. (2016). The role of inflammation in depression. Nature Reviews Immunology, 16(1), 22-34.

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